A first for Tim here I believe
I was supposed to be hosting stitch n bitch tonight, but everyone ended up being busy/tired. It worked out perfectly though, my back was bothering me a bit, and I didn't mind having a quiet evening. Tim had planned to call Celena to see if she wanted to go out tonight (Celena is Toni's friend, and as much as I tried to be friends with her, we never clicked all that well, but she gets along really well with Tim). He had thought about cancelling when Stitch n bitch was no longer happening, but I told him I really wanted him to go.
Working from home, he hasn't met a lot of people. The people he knows, he knows through me and they are usually my friends. So when I said I really wanted him to go, I meant I really thought he needed to go. Celena likes to go out to bars and drink, something Tim really doesn't get to do with me because I have no interest in that scene. But that was something he used to do regularly in Salem, meet up with Mel or Pete or John or whoever for a beer, to talk, to chill.
Making friends here is really hard, and I'm glad I've finally made some good ones. But I know how social Tim is, and as interesting as I am, I shouldn't be the main source of conversation that he has. And now that we both work from home, I think it is even more important. I go out with my friends pretty regularly, and he'll stay and play guitar or whatever. But I'm hoping he'll start hanging with Celena on a regular basis, because I think it will be really good for him. That is still the only thing I would change about our life here, that he could have some of his own friends, so he can get out of the house without me and just be Tim.
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Aw. That's something that has worried me, too. That he would become a hermit. I'm glad he is going out without you. You ARE interesting, but he needs something separate from you.
I never met Celena.
I can NOT wait to see you guys next week!!!!
We are just as excited, it's been a long time!!!
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